…thank you, first of all! 💜 It means the world! One quick and important note though: I send everyone who donates a thank you message that should get to you by email. But these very, very often end up getting stuck in spam filters.
So if you donated recently and didn’t get a message from me, please fill out the supporter form here so I can set up your supporter account (for access to the special supporter posts and video archive) if you don’t have one yet. That way I can also get in touch with you about that little extra nsfw thank you I mentioned in the original post 😋 Thanks!!
If you followed this blog for a while you’re probably aware that my life is nothing if not consistently a ride on the struggle bus. I lost my job during COVID and had a chain of health issues, both physical and mental since.
The last few years have been the darkest place I’ve ever been to and I stood at this abyss that’s asking “Is it even worth it anymore” more than once. A few months ago I was close to giving up because I couldn’t see a reality anymore in which I’d be healthy, let alone happy.
I’m in a slightly better place by now and I want to make things work out, as daunting as the prospect of getting there is. I have been applying for jobs like crazy the last few weeks and I tackled what is probably the scariest part of getting my life together: getting health insurance again.
I need to get physically healthy for the rest to follow and for that health insurance is a necessity. I’m not gonna go into the details too much but before I can get coverage again I have to pay for the last few years that I was supposed to but didn’t have any insurance. Luckily the amount I have to back pay is capped but it’s still A LOT. Especially on top of rising rents, utility costs and grocery prices.
I want to stand on my own feet but, as embarrassing as it is to admit, I’m not there yet. If you can afford to chip in, you’d be a life saver. Thank you heaps for considering it 💜
If you choose to donate it counts of course the same as a donation towards the site which means you can get a supporter account. We got a video archive now that I’m adding new videos to several times a week! If you want to, you can also have a little (nsfw) extra thank you of myself (I wish I’d have the confidence to just make an onlyfans but alas).
I mentioned last month that I’m working on a little video gallery for supporters. Videos generate a ton of traffic, likely more than I could afford to pay for if I’d make that feature public so I thought it’d make sense to do it as a little extra thank you for the folks keeping the site alive.
I’m currently uploading a few videos from old supporter posts every day. Once that’s done I’ll start adding new ones, probably about twice a week. The archive will have a lot of porn but also some movie clips, short films and other random videos. You can find the video archive here.
porn picks for if you’re in that kinda mood
I also started organising the clips I posted from professional twink porn sites into a video gallery over here. It’s pretty neat to eventually have them all in one place, I’m adding a few per day at the moment.
I’ll also look into which other kinds of videos would make sense to make a gallery for but, I’m not gonna bother to pretend otherwise, these clips were my first priority because they have referral links posted with them and I’m poor 🥲 Thanks so, so much to everyone who is buying their memberships to any of those sites through my links!
milkboys on bluesky
I made a BlueSky account for milkboys a while ago in case any of you are active over there. It gets all new posts, some daily extra pictures and a few interesting links to news and articles once in a while.
I’m currently trying to avoid posting too many bad news there because I don’t want to become a part of the doom scrolling problem but I’m not entirely sure yet on that whole topic. At the end of the day I think there are far better news sources/aggregators out there than milkboys and I’ll still post serious news in the semi-regular News Roundup posts of course.
That’s all for now, hope you all will have a great week and stay fabulous! 💜
I’m hoping to the have video library (will need to think of a less boring name for that) ready sometime during February. I’ll see if I can have it have all the old supporter posts containing videos and also new stuff that I’ll add a few times a week. It should be a lot nicer to use than having to scroll through endless pages of single video posts.
Also, semi-related, regular reminder: Some mail services, especially Gmail, seem to often mark mails from this site and from GoFundMe as spam. So if you donated before and haven’t received a thank you mail with instructions on how to get your supporter account, please let me know! 💜
If you haven’t donated yet but would like to support the site and get a supporter account, you can do so over here! Everyone donating $30 will get a supporter account for one year, $100 will get you a lifetime account. Thank you so much for your support!
I wanted to give a quick update on the little thank you project for supporters. I’m working on creating a video archive that will make it easier for me to post and for you to quickly find and watch videos. Kind of like a small (!) milkboystube that I’ll add hand-picked videos to several times a week.
Hosting videos creates a lot more traffic than a normal website and would be quite costly under normal circumstances so I think it makes sense to have something like this as a treat for supporters. That way it won’t take up too many server resources while giving everyone kind enough to support me and the site a little extra content 💜
If you’d like to donate, whether it be now or later, you can over here. Everyone donating $30 will get a supporter account for one year, $100 will get you a lifetime account. Thank you all so much for your support, I literally couldn’t do this without you!
2024 is coming to an end and I wanted to take a moment to thank you all for your incredible support over this not very easy year.
I’ve been doing this little blog for so many years now and I’m still amazed how many of you have stuck around, it’s super nice to see familiar names in the comments so often!
On average more than 4,000 of you stop by every day. That number isn’t as big as it used to be for a plethora of reasons (the internet becoming more and more hostile towards any kind of “adult content” being one of them) but that’s still a mind-blowing amount of people to me. Thank you so much for that!
Talking of being thankful: Some of you supported either this blog or me personally financially and I can’t even begin to explain how much of a difference this makes. I’m struggling with health issues that make finding a job very challenging (still trying though), right now it’s mostly thanks to you guys that I have a roof over my head despite this. Thank you so, so much! 💜
I’m working on a little extra thank you for everyone who did and does support me and this site. It’s not ready yet but I’ll let you all know in the near future :)
I hope all of you get some well deserved rest between the years and that you stay healthy and get treated kindly by the world in 2025. milkboys will be around just like all these years before thanks to you!
Thanks so, so much to everyone that donated for my medical bill, I’m genuinely astounded by your generosity 💖 I’ll let you know how it went! And if you contributed and don’t have a supporter account yet, don’t forget to fill out this little form so I can set one up for you!
Update: It went well! Just got the stitches removed, everything is healing well and there’s no pain or complications.
After viewing Tara Lipinski’s gold medal-winning performance at the 1998 Winter Olympics, Colin Grafton knew he wanted to be a figure skater. He threw himself into the sport in his hometown of Boston, and eventually qualified for Team USA. The highlight of his five years on the squad came in 2012, when he won bronze at the Junior US Championships with partner Kylie Duarte.
A year later, Grafton retired from competitive skating and moved on to the world of professional performance. After years of touring and coaching, he eventually landed a spot as an ensemble skater on Great Britain’s Dancing on Ice, a figure skating version of Dancing With the Stars.
Final: The Vivienne and Colin skate to Dark Horse by Katy Perry | Dancing on Ice 2023
A year later, Grafton was promoted to starring skater and drew national attention when he was paired with Drag Race UK star The Vivienne. The pair wow’d audiences with a 3rd-place finish.
I had a minor health incident tonight, I’m all good again for now but didn’t have the energy to prepare the usual posts for tomorrow (Sunday). We should be back to the normal schedule Monday though. I know the world doesn’t stop spinning because I don’t post anything for a day or two but I thought I’ll let you know anyway 😋 Stay safe & healthy everyone! 💖
Some of you might remember a post from a few months ago about my rent going up to a point that makes it hard for me to afford and me looking for a new place. I actually found an apartment that is almost 30% cheaper than my current rent.
But being poor being insidious as it is, saving money in the long run often comes with costs that are hard to manage short term. Namely three months of rent as security deposit (my current apartment only needed one month so I won’t get much back), renting a transporter to move my stuff and costs for renovating my old place before moving out (which is in the contract, might explain the only one month deposit).
If you can and would like to help, I have a GoFundMe below or you can use Ko-Fi. It would help me out a ton and take a huge burden off my shoulders to have a bit of an easier time paying rent in the future. If you donate $30 or more and don’t have a supporter account, I’d be happy to set one up for you so you can check out past and future supporter posts! Thank you!! 💖
