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2024 is coming to an end and I wanted to take a moment to thank you all for your incredible support over this not very easy year.

I’ve been doing this little blog for so many years now and I’m still amazed how many of you have stuck around, it’s super nice to see familiar names in the comments so often!

On average more than 4,000 of you stop by every day. That number isn’t as big as it used to be for a plethora of reasons (the internet becoming more and more hostile towards any kind of “adult content” being one of them) but that’s still a mind-blowing amount of people to me. Thank you so much for that!

Talking of being thankful: Some of you supported either this blog or me personally financially and I can’t even begin to explain how much of a difference this makes. I’m struggling with health issues that make finding a job very challenging (still trying though), right now it’s mostly thanks to you guys that I have a roof over my head despite this. Thank you so, so much! 💜

I’m working on a little extra thank you for everyone who did and does support me and this site. It’s not ready yet but I’ll let you all know in the near future :)

I hope all of you get some well deserved rest between the years and that you stay healthy and get treated kindly by the world in 2025. milkboys will be around just like all these years before thanks to you!

Love,
Em

Thanks so, so much to everyone that donated for my medical bill, I’m genuinely astounded by your generosity 💖  I’ll let you know how it went! And if you contributed and don’t have a supporter account yet, don’t forget to fill out this little form so I can set one up for you!

Update: It went well! Just got the stitches removed, everything is healing well and there’s no pain or complications.

Some of you might remember that I had a small dental surgery last year. On the x-rays that the dentist made he noticed an issue with my wisdom teeth (apparently caused by my mouth being too small…)

He had another look at them now and advised me to have them removed asap. They’re not only pushing against my other teeth, one of them is also causing a constant inflammation.

I kind of suspected something along those lines because I have been feeling tired and  lacking energy for years on top of my mental health being in steep decline. Both issues are likely by-products of these inflammations.

I can barely remember what it’s like to not be tired or fighting off anxiety attacks and depressive episodes on the daily. But if there’s a chance to get back there I really, really want to give it a try. The prospect of possibly feeling like a healthy, normal human being is almost overwhelming after years of depression.

I had to cancel my dental insurance last year because I couldn’t afford it anymore so I’ll have to pay a significant part of the costs myself which is scary.

If you’re in a position that allows you to chip in even just a small amount, I’d be incredibly grateful. If you don’t have a supporter account that lets you access the special supporter posts yet your donation will definitely count towards that but I’ll also sit down and think of a way to show my appreciation to the people who already have one.

Thank you!! 💖

Em

I had a minor health incident tonight, I’m all good again for now but didn’t have the energy to prepare the usual posts for tomorrow (Sunday). We should be back to the normal schedule Monday though. I know the world doesn’t stop spinning because I don’t post anything for a day or two but I thought I’ll let you know anyway 😋 Stay safe & healthy everyone! 💖

Some of you might remember a post from a few months ago about my rent going up to a point that makes it hard for me to afford and me looking for a new place. I actually found an apartment that is almost 30% cheaper than my current rent.

But being poor being insidious as it is, saving money in the long run often comes with costs that are hard to manage short term. Namely three months of rent as security deposit (my current apartment only needed one month so I won’t get much back), renting a transporter to move my stuff and costs for renovating my old place before moving out (which is in the contract, might explain the only one month deposit).

If you can and would like to help, I have a GoFundMe below or you can use Ko-Fi. It would help me out a ton and take a huge burden off my shoulders to have a bit of an easier time paying rent in the future. If you donate  $30 or more and don’t have a supporter account, I’d be happy to set one up for you so you can check out past and future supporter posts! Thank you!! 💖

If you don’t want to miss any of the posts on here or wouldn’t mind some extra news, pictures and videos feel free to follow the new milkboys Twitter! I’m posting a bunch of additional content there every day :)