Former NFL star Carl Nassib has revealed why he felt he had to come out as gay publicly. The one-time defensive end for the Cleveland Browns, Tampa Bay Buccaneers and Las Vegas Raiders came out on Instagram in 2021, becoming the first active NFL player to do so. He pledged to donate $100,000 to LGBTQ+ youth suicide-prevention charity, The Trevor Project.
Appearing recently on The Pivot Podcast, Nassib said he made the decision despite there being a chance it would hurt his career. “I knew I wanted to do it for years before that,” he said, adding that there were “a few catalysts” that pushed him on.
The first was that his uncle Bill, who was also gay and whom he described as a “touchpoint”, had died from cancer in 2019. Nassib was already out to some of his immediate family and close friends by then. “I saw him on his deathbed. He was in really bad shape and I came out to him. We were from a huge family, 44 first cousins, and he was the only gay person in the family.